Blamed By Your Boss? 5 Why and How To Deal With
If you work on a company as an employee, you’ll get a boss with various behavior. Does not rule out the possibility that you’ll get a boss with bad manners to their employees. These type of bosses generally arrogant and always want to be all true above their mistakes, and unfortunately, you will be the one of his/her target to blame.
You might realize it is quite hard to some of you to find another job. But being the one who always getting blamed by your boss is not a pleasant thing either. So, how to face down to situation like this? I have 5 cents that might be useful for you.
Listen calmly
Being called into a boss room can pump your heart to its tremendous beats. You will question everything you didn’t even know with your sweaty neck. Don’t worry, if you’re accussed by your boss of mistakes you didn’t make, just write the problem down and stay relaxed.
Don’t ever raise your voice of defense that leads your boss to become more ferocious, just sit calmly, don’t argue with him/her. Say sorry, and just say that you never do that with supportive documents and evidences. Remember the time and places where you were presumed wrong, and describe that with your respect. However, he/she is your boss.
Achieved your best result at work
Always build your positive image at work. Your boss might don’t like it, but your achievements would lessen chances to get blamed by your boss. Also, the better attitude and diligence you have, the bigger chances to apply the better jobs, then your company would hold you as long as they can and offer bigger salaries or position.
Discuss with your co-workers
Tell your trusted co-worker or senior about what your boss have done to you. A great partner would give a solution to your problems or even protect you from such boss behavior.
Accompany your boss
Your boss maybe in a stressful situation that very difficult to handle. Just like your parents that would scold you without a reason because they think you are too young to understand their problem and help them. Then do a small conversation to your boss in private messages whenever your boss looks like he/she is just getting a problem.
Be kind, greet him/her, ask what the matter, offer a meal, buy him/her some foods that might be lower his/her temper. Don’t forget to finish your job as soon as possible. This method almost never fails to make your boss thinks twice to do some false accussations to you.
Admit it
Please don’t ever feel that you never do mistakes at work. Just don’t. If your boss blames you for things that your fault, you might be wrong. Ask him what to improve, and keep your promise. Because your mate did the problem, it’s not that you are free from the accussation.
Admit it even though you were not with them at the time, and tell your boss you would advise your mates for the case. Your boss would be proud having employee like you.
So, don’t ever feel sad anymore, your boss needs good treatment right now. If not, build your own professionalism to get better job with ease. 🙂