Admitting Mistakes is Easy, Take Look These 4 Steps
Everyone ever made mistakes, but not all of them could be able to admit their fault easily. We don’t want change other perception to us instantly because the mistake we did. This is why some of us really difficult to admit our fault. We have a really strong ego that should fight with. On a severe case, we might be reluctant to feel guilty, lead us to feel superior among the others just like God that can’t be blamed.
The final result, every people on the Earth would be hate us because of such behavior. But basically, admitting our mistakes can be so easy, how?
See the factor
One of the main factor why you are stubborn with your mistakes is definitely your background about how your parents or people around you treated you in the past. You might always were the target to blame on. Or, you were bullied by your classmates frequently. These problems would make you to build your own defense because this sort of trauma.
You are extremely tired with every treatments you got in your past so you now don’t want another person to give you similar thing as you become an adult. Remember, almost every villain you watch in the movies has a dark past.
After you recognize your problem, you will acknowledge the reason why admitting your mistakes is really difficult.
Get a right buddy
“Wrong” partners will also harden you to feel guilty. Your mates might had similar experiences in the past so they will protect you from every consequences you will get because of your incorrect move. Just please find another person who be able to point your mistakes and be able to give you solutions.
I know finding the right buddy is not that easy, but at least you want to be better yourself.
Avoid superior feeling
As I pointed in the first section about feeling superior, you might have an absolutely valid reason why you feel that. A better education or wealth or status might lead you to think you are better than others. The uncomfortable feeling about people judging every move you did sure will grow your self ego defense that avoid you admitting your fault.
Please take a note, you are nothing in the world, so are the artists, scientist, and every geniuses in this earth. We are the social creatures so what we do will have an impact to the others, direct or indirect. Lower your standard and get a book about people that managed to change our life with their beneficial discovery. They were also getting an unpleasant moment from people around them, and they did mistakes too.
Be wiser
Get your own quiet place, think of everything. You just like others in this world. There’s no such main characters like you watch in every movies so you should do your own life plot. Just like Yin and Yang, everyone has their good or bad side, so do you. If you do some mistakes, forgive yourself first, then apologize to the others.
Saying sorry will make you feel great, and it will build your nice image to everybody you apologize to because your fault. People will give you perception as a wise person, not a stubborn one so that they will accompany you better than ever. 🙂